By Lidia Frederico
The Change in Your Love Life
In today’s world it’s all rush, rush, rush, and finding love has became a true challenge for many, to the point of turning to online dating. The mindset has completely changed in regards to relationships, many are too busy to have a love relationship due to their career commitments; others start a relationship thinking that if it does not work out they soon can find another. Commitment to love is no longer in the charts, far from it, the foundations are lost and in the background all is lost even before it has started. Engagement, marriage we all dream about no matter if you are a man or woman, finding the right person to take that place in our hearts, now that’s a true challenge in our days…or is it?!
One of the main issues that I’ve come across with people that I work with in regards to this matter, is that the “heartbreaks” from their past relationships has put a major stop on them opening their hearts to love and be loved once again.
Many hold on to old painful relationships that are like a rotten seed that has never flourished, which stops them from moving forward, also understanding that this was nothing else but a soul lesson that they had to experience. Yes it is their choice to stay in the past or to move forward, planting new amazing seeds of love by changing their inner core, simply letting go of the past pain, forgiving and moving on with a new mindset and open heart. When you change your energetic vibration you change your life, and love is no different, on the contrary “Love” is the core of true happiness. In all relationships you have challenges and yes at times it’s like the gates of hell are breaking loose, but all can be changed, all can be rewritten with a happy ending.
When you change your energetic vibration you change your life…
You physical body is made of an energy field, as is all in our world, the food that you eat, the trees…all that surrounds you is made of energy. Energy enters, flows through the body, is processed and leaves. This in and out of energy flow is what gives you the strength and balance to sustain the activities of everyday life.
The energy (your Aura and your Chakra) system maintains a deep connection to the emotional system, which then maintains a liaison with the mental system, which in turn sustains your whole system of beliefs, i.e. things that you believe in and are living by.
Just a slight imbalance in your belief system is all it takes for your mental system to be affected, which in turn affects all of your emotional system, which can block the positive flow energy system. All of that blocked energy causes illness in your physical body and there are all kinds of illness. Dear one, understand that all of those illnesses are caused by your emotional blockages, which are caused by your subconscious mind. Your mind is your most powerful tool and so much more powerful than you realise. If you block one of your deepest emotions it is a slow suicide. It is so simple and this is what you need to do: Cleaning, cleaning and more cleaning! There is no other way. Unlock your HEART and open it! Clear and cleanse existing blocks and open the heart, not create more blockages. Live your emotions freely the way that you feel them. Do not criticise the mind with emotions, looking for logic. If you want to cry, then cry. If you want to laugh, then laugh. No need to ask the why, or search for logic. Emotions are not logical…so there is no point in trying.
Working with our own energy is so very powerful and the beauty of it is, you can do it at any time with little effort, you just need to set the intention. It’s like those super fashion shoes that you see in the shop that you must have, so you go out of your way to get them. Or that cool mobile phone that is out and all are talking about, and you just have to have it! Yes we all have been there in our life time, and I’m sure you do remember the energy that you did put out to make it happen …same here!
When you vibrate from a low frequency or what is called your lower-self, you are most likely sending away true unconditional love, heavy vibrations of guilt or shame. For example, you send away love from coming into your reality. Your heavy vibrations may also send away the love that others are trying to give you and are already present in your life, as your heart calcifies, nothing is coming in, nothing coming out, a completely blocked heart.
Let me give you some more examples:
Unfaithful lover or other fears come true – whatever your greatest fear is, your vibrations will attract it. If you fear your partner is going to cheat on you, you’re setting yourself up for disaster, as the energy you put out you will receive it back.
When you believe that you must struggle for love, then it will bring about situations that are conducive to struggle. When you believe you cannot experience true love without pain, God/Universe will give you exactly that – love with pain. When you believe it takes time for an illness to heal – then so it will.
There is not a single force opposing you, there is only one force supporting you absolutely, it is called LOVE, the force that birthed you, that created you in its own image. This love is so magnanimous it will give you exactly and absolutely whatever it is that your reality entails.
Change your beliefs and you change your reality
It is only in your hands to do it. – How do you change your reality?
Remember that Divine Love is not “human romantic love”
- You make a choice to finally let go
- You make no judgements or have any expectations of what a relationship should be like
- Clear all negative emotions related to past
Relationships and all the burdens are deep pain
- Visualise harmony, happiness and peace of mind
- Accept love to give and receive in your life
- Give love from a place of pure unconditional love
Take action today to clean and clear your past:
“I open my heart wide and I let love flow from within.
My past is out. My present is in. My future is cleared.
My past is out. My present is in. My future is cleared.
My past is out. My present is in. My future is cleared!”
Energy statement to clear past and present blocks
I Delete it – Across all timelines, dimensions, space, realities. “My past is out. My present is in. My future is cleared.”
I Uncreate it – unplugging the negative energy from source, from the first time you have created it: “My past is out. My present is in. My future is cleared.”
I Destroy it – removing all the negative energy vibrations out of your memories, holding all positive energies in place: “My past is out, My present is in, My future is cleared.”
” I open my heart wide and I let love flow from within.”
The key is to be patient, and wait for the right moment; the locks will be broken, with a new attitude. With less pain you will open your heart and this will prevent more blockages. The mind and the heart can’t be together in life, because the two are the opposites and must live equally and with the same intensity. To create the right balance between them you need to clean and clean up, clean up forever.
© 2006-2015 Lidia Frederico: http://www.lidiafrederico.com