I don’t love my husband anymore Dear Judy, I am now at a point to seek help.  I have been married for eight years and we have a daughter aged 7.  I think I don’t love my husband any more but I don’t have the courage to tell him.  We came to this country from Poland to make a better life for ourselves but he is always working. He does love us and he wants money for us to have a better life but in the meantime, because he is never here, I no longer love him. He gets up early and comes home late and even though he does love me, he doesn’t know how to be a friend or a partner.  I feel like a single parent and I am lonely. I have had to try to make my own friends. Sometimes he comes to meet them on a Sunday afternoon but he is so tired he falls asleep. I am young and feel like my life is passing me by. I cry a lot. I don’t want to hurt him but I feel like I can’t carry on like this any more. Bella Think about the life you want for yourself and your child Dear Bella, A relationship can survive most difficulties – but not a lack of communication. It is very difficult to be married to a workaholic and especially when they are in denial about what motivates them and believe their efforts are only about making a good life for their family. Men who work as hard as your husband does, put themselves under a lot of pressure in pursuit of their goals. It seems as if both of you have lost the ability to communicate your needs and your feelings, and to relax and have fun together. You have two tasks in front of you now. Firstly, you must think about the life you want for [...]

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