Dear Judy, I have had a very big shock in my personal life recently. The man that was my partner has been seeing someone else and I am finding it very hard to accept it. The difficult thing is that we still live in the same house and I still love him. We have been with each other for eight years, we grew together and I can’t believe that he has given up on me for another woman. We came to this country together when we were both very young and have gone through many difficulties and challenges supporting each other. I made a big sacrifice by working so hard when he was going to university, trying to give him space to study and encouraging him to achieve his degree. Now that things have started to become easier in our life he has told me that he is in love with another woman, who he met at the workplace of the job that I helped him to find. How can this happen? I feel so bad and I don’t understand my feelings. How can I still love him? He told me that they are planning to move in together and soon he will leave the house. I don’t know if I would be able to survive after that. Please can you give me any advice to find the strength and to let it go? Or should I hope that he will come back to me again? I don’t know what to do, how to behave and what to believe. Elena   You need to know the reasons why he wants to leave Dear Elena You need to know the reasons why he wants to leave. It is a horrible experience to be told by the man you love and live with that he is seeing someone else and would like to move in with her. There is no doubt that your partner has behaved [...]

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